Carolyn D. Boening, 88, of Provincetown, Mass., known to her numerous friends as “Carolina,” died with dignity with her eldest daughter by her side on Wednesday, Nov. 19, 2014, at Cape Cod Hospital, Hyannis, Mass., after a brief illness. Mrs. Boening, an artist, singer and musician, lived an extraordinarily rich and creative life. She was an elegant and sophisticated woman, yet generous and kind. Though she faced numerous physical and emotional challenges, she found great solace and support from the 12-step tradition and Christian Science. She achieved 36 years of sobriety and shared her commitment with many others. Mrs. Boening was born April 26, 1926, in Southampton, N.Y., the second daughter of C. Edwin Dimon and Eugenia (Mallery) Dimon. She displayed her deep musical talent from a very young age and had perfect pitch and played several instruments, including piano and flute. She graduated from Friends Academy, Locust Valley, N.Y., and attended Oberlin Conservatory of Music, Oberlin, Ohio, where she met her second husband, before graduating with a Bachelor of Arts degree in English from then-Hofstra College, Long Island, N.Y. Mrs. Boening was married to James B. Curran of Hempstead, N.Y., and bore two daughters. She later divorced and married the late Vincent R. Boening, a distinguished securities technical analyst. Mrs. Boening lived in numerous locales, including New York City, Boston, Cambridge, Brookline and Provincetown, Mass., La Jolla, Ca., London, U.K., and Paris and Nice, France. A talented, fashionable and vibrant individual, Mrs. Boening had a varied career. She was a teacher at several schools, including the Arizona Desert School, Tucson, and a Girl Scout leader. She was the executive secretary to the dean of the Harvard Business School, Cambridge, Mass., and held a similar position for the curator of Arms and Armour at the Metropolitan Museum, New York City. In addition, she worked at the iconic fashion store Browns in London. She also supported Mr. Boening’s securities-analysis business, working with him to produce a twice-weekly stock report. Mrs. Boening’s musical and artistic interests were an important part of her life. She composed music, poetry and short stories. She sang with the National Cathedral Choir in Washington, D.C., performing Handel’s “Messiah,” and with the Opera Company of Boston chorus, under the direction of Sarah Caldwell, performing in the 1966 American premier of Arnold Schoenberg’s “Moses und Aron” and also in “Otello” with Renata Tebaldi. An avid painter, she held a one-woman show of her work in La Jolla and continued to paint extensively during her residence in France. Most recently, she organized and directed the Youville House chorus in Cambridge, and this past summer, she played the piano at Bubala’s in Provincetown. Survivors include her younger sister, Edna “Hedy” Boyd of Southampton, N.Y., and Sarasota, Fla.; her daughters, Jeanne P. Curran-Sarto and husband Andrew A. Sarto, of Bangor, Me., and Sasha M. Curran of Provincetown, Mass.; one grandson, Patrick A. Sarto, and wife, Cheryl C. Sarto, great-grandson, Jayden J. Sarto, and two foster great-grandchildren, all of of Lyman, Me.; five nieces, Amy Boyd of Sarasota, Fla., Cecile Klayton of Fairfax Station, Va., Suzanne St. Claire of Chambersburg, Pa., Dawn Richmond of Hagerstown, Md., and Fawn Proctor of Shippensburg, Pa.; a nephew, C. Douglas Dimon of Southampton; and one cousin, Charlton Halsey and wife Nancy Halsey of Water Mill and Greenport, N.Y. Mrs. Boening’s remains were cremated on Monday, Nov. 24, 2014, with the expectation of their being scattered with her husband’s ashes at the Holy Trinity Anglican Church, Nice, France. A memorial service has been tentatively set for April 2015 in Provincetown. The family asks that friends watch for further announcements.
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